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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Lower My Standards?
— Hi Doc, I started dating in my early twenties and in that time I learned a lot about who I gel with and who to stay the he** away from. However, one thing that I noticed was a common theme: I kept...
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Don’t Be the Card Trick Guy
You know, it’s funny. I was just sitting around here talking with a friend of mine, Bryan, who was the co-author of my book and we were chatting about the many approaches to meeting women, and some I...
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Elevating Attraction
Most men think that they need a clever line to approach a woman, which in some cases may garner a reaction. But through all my years of coaching men and women, I have found that it is not what you say...
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When Men Are Not Attracted to Their Partner
— When it comes to the world of relationships, it seems to be one the last taboos: alongside admitting that you’re not over-the-moon about your relationship and whispering to a friend that your desire...
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4 Things to Look for in a Relationship, if You Want Your Relationship to Grow...
— First, There is you. There is your partner. And there is the relationship. As you guys invest in each other and build, the relationship becomes its own living breathing thing. The dynamic of the...
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Man Alive! Master Listening for More Connection, Respect and Attraction
— Has anyone ever told you-you don’t listen, or don’t listen well? Have you been accused of “being somewhere else” or not hearing someone and then thought (maybe a bit defensively) — “What are you...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Important Is Physical Attraction?
— Hello Dr.! I’ve been reading your articles and posts for several years now, and I have a lot in common with some the other people who write to you. I’m a 36-year-old man who did well in high school...
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Life Is a Mirror
— The following is a response I gave to a client who asked me how he could meet women even though he is very shy. You are going to get exactly who you are. Think about this: I’m a boisterous person and...
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A Man in Sandals Reading a Book
— “Why do you really want to know what attracts me? Why do you really care?” Since you asked, I’ll answer. When I’m in the right mood — everything attracts me: a glimpse of a stranger’s elbow;...
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Ask Erin: How Do I Stop My Feelings For Someone Other Than My Boyfriend?
— Q. Dear Erin, I have been in a committed relationship for about two years. My boyfriend and I are generally very happy and are planning to move in together in a few months. We’ve had our ups and...
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Why Don’t You Attract the Women You Want?
— According to an article posted by Psychology Today, named, Do Men and Women Get the Same Things From a Relationship? Tracy Kwang and colleagues of the University of Texas found that men base their...
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Fighting Murphy’s Law With the Law of Attraction
— Today, my friend and I went out to deliver some food and earn a couple of quick cash. We woke up early morning with the intention to begin delivering at 7 AM but the grey clouds rolled in. Within...
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Definition of Attraction
— People are always asking me, “how do you make somebody be attracted to you?” You don’t MAKE somebody be attracted to you – you create attraction. You create attraction by making people feel good – by...
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Understanding the Confident / Nervous Guy
— So let’s say there is a guy you are attracted to whom you see all the time. When you see him, he’s always out with his friends, laughing and just having a great time with his buddies. Every time you...
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3 Secrets to Make Him Want More with You
How do men distinguish between someone they are merely attracted to versus someone who makes them want to be in a committed relationship? There is so much more to this deep level of attraction than...
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Is She Attracted to Me?
— Many guys pay too much attention to body language – if she’s holding her arms this way… Many guys are looking for signs from her body language, but they aren’t leading with their own bodies. You have...
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Are You a Great Lover?
— “The man who goes from one woman to another, is often considered a great lover. But all he is really doing is avoiding his own pain as much as anything. When you connect deeply with another person,...
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Why Confidence is the Most Attractive Quality to Have
Attraction is subjective. Things that we’re told are attractive can be contradictory and downright confusing. Are people into a clean-cut look, or is scruff in style? Do people prefer introspection or...
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The 5-Minute Secret to Transform Your Love Life AND Career
You’re right. It’s not fair. The bad news is, there will always be people with inferior personalities or products who will get further ahead than they deserve. But the good news is, there IS a secret...
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Text Him This ONE WORD to Get His Attention
What’s the deal? When someone you like disappears and then reappears, it’s easy to find yourself in a dilemma about what to do. You think, “Do I ignore him to teach him a lesson? Do I play it cool and...
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